July 14th, 2004

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1. Full name: Ashley Nicole Ruiz-Margenot

2. Nicknames: Ash, Asher, Ashness, Ashalia, Cookie Girl (don't ask)

3. Eyes: dark brown

4. Height: 5'4''

5. Hair: brown

6. Siblings: Kim, 34

7. Do you like to sing in the shower? sometimes

8. Do u like to sing? No...me? Sing? Never.;)
9. Star sign: cancer

10. Inny or outy: Inny.

12. Righty or Lefty: lefty

13. What you want in a relationship most: I'd really want to be with someone who trusted and respected me, who I had a great friendship with. Someone who I can just totally be myself around.

18. What kinda car do you have? Infiniti J30

19. Movies: Oh lord...too many! Love Actually, A Walk to Remember, Notting Hill, You've Got Mail...okay, let's just narrow this down by saying pretty much any film with Hugh Grant, and any Tom Hanks/Meg Ryan movie. The Notebook, Bruce Almighty, About a Boy, Fahreinheit 9/11, Pleasantville...

20. Song: "Pieces of Me"-Ashlee Simpson, The whole Avenue Q Soundtrack, "Never Alone"-Barlow Girl (GREAT SONG), "Don't Tell Me"-Avril Lavigne

22. TV Show: Big Brother 5, Joan of Arcadia, I Love the 90's
23. Actor: John Tartaglia (broadway actor), Hugh Grant, Colin Firth

24. Actress: Stephanie D'Abruzzo (broadway actress), Rachel Mc Adams, Julie Andrews (I LOVE HER)

26. favorite number: 12

27. Cartoon: Family Guy, Proud Family, sometimes Kim Possible

28. Disney Character: Mulan, Lilo

29. Colour: Purple


30. Do you plan on having kids? In the future.

31. How old do you wanna be when you are married?: After I've got a decent job and income...after college.

34. Would you have kids before marriage? No way. People see me with babies and they go, "Is he/she yours?" Um...do you see a ring?

35. bf/gf? nope

36. Do you have a crush: No...seriously.

38. Music/TV: music.

39. Guys/Girls: What is this supposed to mean? Both for friends, guys for the romantic stuff.

40. Green/Blue: Blue

41. Pink/Purple: Purple

42. Summer/Winter: Summer

43. Night/Day: Both...but I like night.

44. Hangin Out/Chillin: is there a difference? (ditto, Vanessa)


51. MosT blonde: Melissa. But she knows I love her.

52. FuNnIeSt: Oh lord, everyone. But Jon-no-h and Austin will really crack me up.

55. What was the last thing you cried over or got tears from? I don't want to talk about it.

57. Whats something you cant live without?: God

58. Love or Lust: love

59. Silver or gold: silver

60. Diamond or pearl: Diamonds

61. Sunset or sunrise: Sunset

64. Have you ever gone skinny-dipping?: No comment...

65. Do you sleep with stuffed animals: Nope

66. Do you have any piercings: My ears and belly button

68. What song are u listening to right now? None

70. Where would you want to go on your honeymoon? Somewhere tropical and quiet.

72. What's the first thing you notice about the opposite sex: Eyes and body type.

73. Favourite sport? soccer

74. What makes you happy? God, prayer, true friends, certain books, needlepoint, and certain songs...rain.

75. whats the next CD you're gonna get? Barlow Girl

76. Do u wear contacts or glasses? Glasses

77. What's the worst advice given to you? Not to say anything when I felt that I should.

79. What are your future goals? Uh, what happened to 78? Or 80, for that matter? That's my future goal...to find out what happened to them. Actually, I want to graduate from college and then move on to getting my doctorate in psychology.

81. Do you like Funny or Scary movies? Both. Sometimes scary movies are funny. (Look. In. The. Trunk.- LOL, Jon!)

82. On the phone or in person? In person

84. What song seems to reflect you the most? "Never Alone"-Barlow Girl, "Missing Person"...was that Michael W. Smith?

85. If you died tomorrow who would you leave everything you own to? Family and friends. (Jon, I'll give you all my icons...and my Avenue Q ticket).

86. Do you have any enemies? Probably.

89. What time is it in Albania now: Does anyone really care?

90. Have you ever been in love? I think so.

91. Have you ever met Santa? No...

92. If E.T. knocked on your door holding up a peace sign and asked you to use ur phone, what would you do? You have no life. And hey, do I look like Drew Barrymore to you? (aka Gertie in E.T.)

94. Do you have any pets? 2 dogs, 2 cats, a bird, and a turtle.

98. Who sent this to you? Vanessa.

99. What do you think of this person: All I have to say is, "I believe I can die...I got shot by the FBI...all I wanted was a chicken wing..."

"Okay, well, we're at the Howard Johnson's Hotel..."
"I know where you are."

"Hello my name is Rrrrosa. You give me a pizza, I teach you to tango."

Vanessa, you're awesome. :)

100. Do you want your friends to send this back: Well, I'm emailing it to Vanessa and lj-ing it...so you can't really send it back.
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I just added everyone back who added innerashley to their friends lists. I just updated, too, so check it out if you like. :)

Julie's right. People suck. Well, it depends on the people, really. Actually, let me rephrase that. Elitist people suck.

At work the other day, a loyal customer stuck around to talk to me, Daniella, and Evelyn. One of the things she brought up completely makes sense. You see men helping each other all the time. Ever heard of the "good ol' boys" network? Why do you think it's more difficult for women to get into higher career positions? Guys will promote guys before they promote women. Believe it. I've seen it in my mom's company and many others.

Women, however, are not like men. We don't have a "good ol' girls" network. Instead, we often insist on tearing each other down and being catty when we could really kick ass. I'm not sure what it is, but girls have this innate tendency to pull down someone who thinks that they are even equal to them. Not all girls do it, but I would say 90% of them do. It's pretty much the reason I wasn't in a good mood yesterday.

What is it about girls that makes them want to stake a claim to everything? Boys, friends, jobs, feelings. It's a "you can't have that, that's mine" attitude that hurts people more than is realized. I don't even think some people realize that they do it.

It's not always girls, either, but it's a lot more prevalent in women.

Oh, and if you're a boy that does this to girls...you're such a wuss (I would use a different word, but I don't want to offend people, especially the girls).
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