I will suffer the consequence of this inquisition...
We all had our reasons to be there
We all had a thing or two to learn
We all needed something to cling to
So we did...
We all had delusions in our head
We all had our minds made up for us
We all had to believe in something
So we did..."-"Forgiven", Alanis Morissette
You cannot decide everything for yourself. Sometimes it also depends on the decision the other person makes. As people, I guess we have to try and be okay with all the possibilities.